We are at a tipping point.

When we started giving children smartphones loaded with apps and social media, we didn’t realize the negative toll it would have on their health and wellbeing. But alarming research is emerging and the findings resonate across the globe:

Young people’s mental health has plummeted, partly due to misuse and overuse of digital platforms that aren’t designed to support healthy child development. 

 

The nonstop distraction of smartphones and social media has been crowding out essential childhood activities and damaging our kids' wellbeing. As parents, we've been deeply concerned yet also resigned to this "new normal." Then along came Jonathan Haidt with the missing piece: collective action.

 

Harms of a phone-based childhood

Perhaps in the last month, you may have heard or read about the work of Social Psychologist Jonathan Haidt, author of The Anxious GenerationHaidt is sounding the alarm that our kids need us to roll back the phone-based childhood and reclaim childhood in the real world. His message is engaging so many parents because it is clear, reflects compelling research findings, and mirrors what so many of us are experiencing in our own homes. It also fills us with hope that a phone-free childhood is possible.

In his March 2024 book, Haidt outlines five foundational harms of a phone-based childhood:

  1. Opportunity cost of time: 7-9 hours a day. The hours now spent on phones and social media crowd out essential childhood activities like sleep, exercise, play, reading, and developing real-life skills and competence.

  2. Social deprivation: time with friends is down 65% since 2010

  3. Sleep deprivation: up sharply since 2013

  4. Attention fragmentation

  5. Behavioral addiction

These research findings are resonating with parents, educators, and young people. But Haidt doesn't stop there - he also addresses what we can do about it. 

A roadmap for collective action

Jonathan Haidt provides an achievable roadmap, suggesting we roll back the phone-based childhood and restore the play-based childhood as a community by focusing on establishing these four norms:

 

1. No smartphones before high school.
Data show that having “talk and text only” is ok!

 
 

2. No social media before age 16.
Especially avoid TikTok, Instagram, and Snapchat, which are not designed to support healthy development.

 
 

3. Phone-free schools. All kids need and
deserve these 7 hours to be phone-free. When children are in school, they should be paying attention to their teachers and to each other, not their phones.

 
 

4. Much more childhood independence, free play, and responsibility in the real world.

 

These are norms that we at ScreenSense are 100% behind. In fact, the dream of these has been woven into our work since the beginning. What is so thrilling now is the growing chorus of voices calling for collective course-correction. These new norms may be a big change from where we are now, but frankly, we've been in an impossible situation. Fortunately, the ground has shifted and a promising roadmap has been provided. Now is the time to activate change in your community!

Want to learn more?

 

READ. The Atlantic article that got everyone talking about collective action!

 
 

LISTEN. This conversation between with Jonathan Haidt and Dr. Becky (March 2024) is like one you'd have with a friend - the kind that inspires you to change the world! (52 min)

 
 

WATCH. Haidt's presentation at the National Summit on Education (Nov 2023) about his key research findings and collective action strategy. (40 min + Q&A)

 

So what now?

This movement to reclaim childhood is developing in real time on the world stage and we are seeing action and discourse popping up everywhere. We at ScreenSense are excited to be part of an incredible network of Aligned Organizations working to activate collective action. There is so much good stuff in the works right now!

If you’d like to share a one-page summary of Jonathan Haidt’s work, download this PDF (este folleto).

For our local readers in Marin County: join the grassroots “collective action” movement in Marin County.

For our readers in other places: do you want to mobilize collective action in your neck of the woods? Find next steps from this Take Action page on the Anxious Generation website. Or start a conversation by forwarding this webpage and strategizing next steps with friends where you live.

Every school or neighborhood needs someone to initiate the first step towards change - could it be you?

No matter where you are on this bumpy parenting journey (e.g., our ScreenSense team has tweens and teens), we are here for you! Check out our developing services or reach out anytime for the support you need!


 
 

This newsletter made possible with generous support from the Harbor Point Charitable Foundation!

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